So I knew that planning a wedding would get stressful -- but I didnt think it would be THIS stressful so quick. A lot going on in my head. We need to save money for a wedding, house, and honeymoon all under 1-year. I was even planning to make a film in 2012, but I'm afraid I'll be stretching myself thin if I did that.
So I've decided to take a break. PJ and I have been in wedding/house hunting mode since the engagement and I'M TIRED -- I know he is. lol.
Last weekend was the much needed break we both deserved an we decided to focus on more important things -- growing together in Christ. Boy oh boy was that a needed weekend.
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
Wednesday, November 9, 2011
HGTV: My First Place Show!
Now a days I watch A LOT of HGTV and all of the home improvement shows. I decided to go online to see if any of the shows are casting in my area -- and they are! So I sent in an application, for the "My First Place" show just for the fun of it...and the Casting Director emailed me back a day later!!! OMGOODNESS!!! Sooo wasn't expecting that!
I have to get a few things in line before we talk any further about the show, BUT...we might be on TV ya'll!!! TOO CRAZY! I'll keep you posted!
I have to get a few things in line before we talk any further about the show, BUT...we might be on TV ya'll!!! TOO CRAZY! I'll keep you posted!
Update: LOVE AND HAPIENESS
It's been a while sense my last entry! I am now engaged and planning a wedding! I was proposed to in Jamaica on my birthday 10/10/11. My fiance is fabulous and I couldnt have asked Christ for a better man.
I hit the beginning of the engagement running and immediately began researching venues, caterers, dresses, flowers, invitations, and many many other things. I quickly became overwhelmed. I didint understand why I had to pay someone $5000+ just to use their space and be limited to 4-6hrs on the property. Whats worse is that they charge $50+ per person for the meal! With my current guest list -- that's $10,000 I'm spending just for 1 day!!! Ridiculous. So I quickly began researching alternatives...and untlimately I landed on what I think is the best option --
Having the reception and maybe even the ceremony in the backyard of our first house together! We could purchase a home before the wedding date, hire a landscaping company to pimp out the yard, and have everyone I'd like to attend -- attend! My grandmother will cook the food (she's the best cook in the world HANDS DOWN) and have 1 big family/friends celebration of our union!
So right now -- we're in the house hunting/saving mode. Wish us luck!
P.
I hit the beginning of the engagement running and immediately began researching venues, caterers, dresses, flowers, invitations, and many many other things. I quickly became overwhelmed. I didint understand why I had to pay someone $5000+ just to use their space and be limited to 4-6hrs on the property. Whats worse is that they charge $50+ per person for the meal! With my current guest list -- that's $10,000 I'm spending just for 1 day!!! Ridiculous. So I quickly began researching alternatives...and untlimately I landed on what I think is the best option --
Having the reception and maybe even the ceremony in the backyard of our first house together! We could purchase a home before the wedding date, hire a landscaping company to pimp out the yard, and have everyone I'd like to attend -- attend! My grandmother will cook the food (she's the best cook in the world HANDS DOWN) and have 1 big family/friends celebration of our union!
So right now -- we're in the house hunting/saving mode. Wish us luck!
P.
Tuesday, January 25, 2011
Could it be?
Could it be that my King has found me? Only time will tell. But this looks promising folks!
Wednesday, July 21, 2010
Let The Whole World Know?
I have a question...
But first I'll explain the situation:
I was on FB and I read the status of a fellow Christian that I highly respect. There was a curse word written. Of course it knocked me back a bit, but then I did some investigating. I thought, surely they don't have their religion status set for Christian (even though they are) -- and they did. This confused me even more...
I know that Christian's are flawed. We're human after all...But this bothered me.
Question:
Do you think that Christian's who are backsliding should change the status of their religion on FB? I can see both sides of the equation here.
1)On one side, NO THEY SHOULDN'T. Just because they curse or whatever doesn't mean that they are less Christian...it just means they are taking a "mini-vacation" and got lost along the way...lol
2) And on the other side, YES THEY SHOULD, because non-Christians are carefully watching us Christian's and when they see us acting ungodly, it pushes them farther from Christ.
But after writing all this out, I think it should remain...Because Christianity isn't something you turn off and on. I guess we just have to gently confront our brothers and sisters and correct the issue ourselves. I think to myself WWJD (what would Jesus do?). Jesus would confront the person, not dis-own them and make them change their name...<3
Thanks BLOGGER for letting me flesh out those thoughts! Sorry guys...don't need your help anymore...Unless you'd still like to comment. :D
But first I'll explain the situation:
I was on FB and I read the status of a fellow Christian that I highly respect. There was a curse word written. Of course it knocked me back a bit, but then I did some investigating. I thought, surely they don't have their religion status set for Christian (even though they are) -- and they did. This confused me even more...
I know that Christian's are flawed. We're human after all...But this bothered me.
Question:
Do you think that Christian's who are backsliding should change the status of their religion on FB? I can see both sides of the equation here.
1)On one side, NO THEY SHOULDN'T. Just because they curse or whatever doesn't mean that they are less Christian...it just means they are taking a "mini-vacation" and got lost along the way...lol
2) And on the other side, YES THEY SHOULD, because non-Christians are carefully watching us Christian's and when they see us acting ungodly, it pushes them farther from Christ.
But after writing all this out, I think it should remain...Because Christianity isn't something you turn off and on. I guess we just have to gently confront our brothers and sisters and correct the issue ourselves. I think to myself WWJD (what would Jesus do?). Jesus would confront the person, not dis-own them and make them change their name...<3
Thanks BLOGGER for letting me flesh out those thoughts! Sorry guys...don't need your help anymore...Unless you'd still like to comment. :D
Thursday, July 15, 2010
Bullies
Just a note:
Don't let people make you think that you need them in order for you to advance in your careers. The only One you need is Christ and if 1 door doesn't work out for you, another one will surely open!
Just trust in Him and an overwhelming peace will consume you!
Love you all!
Don't let people make you think that you need them in order for you to advance in your careers. The only One you need is Christ and if 1 door doesn't work out for you, another one will surely open!
Just trust in Him and an overwhelming peace will consume you!
Love you all!
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
Boldness
Don't let the world EVER tell you how to be a Christian. They don't have the faith you have. They don't have the knoweldege you have. They don't have the God you have. HA!
Do what the Word says. Be Bold. Love God. Love Others. Let the Love of God pour out of you that they have NO CHOICE but to encounter Him everytime they encounter you! Working my way up folks! Not quite there yet, but I'm putting the Devil under my feet and going to march boldly forward!
In encourage you to do the same. But remember to let God order your steps! We are mighty men and women of God! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You will get mocked, made fun of, some Christians are even being killed! But this world is not our home. Don't be afraid! Stand up for God, and He will do the same for you. He already has! Think about it! (The Cross)
P.S. Being bold does NOT mean being cocky. It means, not being a wimp when it comes to what you believe, and not letting the world push you over! We've all had those people that challenge ou faith -- they won't go away. So prepare yourselves for battle, and bring the Sword (the Word) with you!!! Carry it in your heart always.
Love ya much!
P.
Do what the Word says. Be Bold. Love God. Love Others. Let the Love of God pour out of you that they have NO CHOICE but to encounter Him everytime they encounter you! Working my way up folks! Not quite there yet, but I'm putting the Devil under my feet and going to march boldly forward!
In encourage you to do the same. But remember to let God order your steps! We are mighty men and women of God! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You will get mocked, made fun of, some Christians are even being killed! But this world is not our home. Don't be afraid! Stand up for God, and He will do the same for you. He already has! Think about it! (The Cross)
P.S. Being bold does NOT mean being cocky. It means, not being a wimp when it comes to what you believe, and not letting the world push you over! We've all had those people that challenge ou faith -- they won't go away. So prepare yourselves for battle, and bring the Sword (the Word) with you!!! Carry it in your heart always.
Love ya much!
P.
Monday, May 17, 2010
Opening Up To God
Quote by Max Lacado: Let God have you, and let God love you -- and don't be surprised if your heart begins to hear music you've never heard and your feet learn to dance as never before.
THIS IS TRUE! I've experienced so much Joy this past year by just opening myself up to God. Even though the troubles of the world are great, God's love is Greater, and to some that's not a real solution, but I'm here to say that IT'S VERY REAL INDEED!
We must not live by the laws of this world, rather by the Law of our true home -- Heaven. The home that should be more real to you than this earth! God will provide! He must provide. All we need to do is trust him and keep moving forward!
I challenge you to let God have you. When you let go of you and allow more of Him, Miracles happen!!! HE WILL USE YOU! Things that used to be hard (singing, dancing, praising, talking about God to others) become easy as pie!!!
How do you do this? Easy!!! Read His Word (The Bible)! I am sooo serious! Serious as a heart attack in an elderly obese man who was raised on fried pork chops and mac and cheese since infancy. Ha! Seriously -- Your faith will grow and your insecurities about everything will decrease! Why? Because you have filled your cup to the brim of the Truth!!! The only Truth!
There's is so much more to say...But we will start with Reading the Word. How do you fight off and kill the enemy with no sword?! Pick up that sword and learn how to use it!!! Let's all grow today in our Spirtual journey's together!
Love ya much!!!
P. Wood
THIS IS TRUE! I've experienced so much Joy this past year by just opening myself up to God. Even though the troubles of the world are great, God's love is Greater, and to some that's not a real solution, but I'm here to say that IT'S VERY REAL INDEED!
We must not live by the laws of this world, rather by the Law of our true home -- Heaven. The home that should be more real to you than this earth! God will provide! He must provide. All we need to do is trust him and keep moving forward!
I challenge you to let God have you. When you let go of you and allow more of Him, Miracles happen!!! HE WILL USE YOU! Things that used to be hard (singing, dancing, praising, talking about God to others) become easy as pie!!!
How do you do this? Easy!!! Read His Word (The Bible)! I am sooo serious! Serious as a heart attack in an elderly obese man who was raised on fried pork chops and mac and cheese since infancy. Ha! Seriously -- Your faith will grow and your insecurities about everything will decrease! Why? Because you have filled your cup to the brim of the Truth!!! The only Truth!
There's is so much more to say...But we will start with Reading the Word. How do you fight off and kill the enemy with no sword?! Pick up that sword and learn how to use it!!! Let's all grow today in our Spirtual journey's together!
Love ya much!!!
P. Wood
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
No Penguin Yet.
Geez. I was doing good. Not thinking about no men. (Yes, I know that's bad english)Just focusing on God. But lately I've been all out of whack...Everywhere I look everyone is married, or getting married. Definitely not hating...it's just that I want to have a love like that. Someone to share everything with. Someone to know, and for them to know me. I know that God will provide, I'm just...venting my loneliness. But I shouldn't feel lonely because I have God right? Ugg...I need to watch a movie.
Friday, January 8, 2010
Chapter 23 January 8, 2010
There's nothing like being around other artists!!! Especially when they are Believers! It's like we are all small rivers following our own paths and when we come together it's like flowing into the sea, forming a giant mass of creativity that brings together the new and bold from the many different areas that contribute to it's power.
There's something about men and women of God coming together to create in His name. I recently spent an entire day with two talented men of God who make music in His name. What an awesome time we had! Being ourselves, and openly and freely talking about God, His word and how to better reach His people!
2010 is going to be the year ladies and gentlemen! The year where God is going to pour out His blessings on those who ask AND BELIEVE. And believe me -- I AM ASKING and I BELIEVE!
It's my goal this year to operate in Kingdom principles! No longer will the laws of man and nature hinder me from believing! The Bible says that "...God is able to do far more abundantly beyond all that we ask or think according to the power that works within us..." Ephesians 3:20-21.
Reading this verse today was an example of God's perfect timing. I am currently slated to direct this independent feature film that has a HUGE budget...think, "Lord of the Rings"!!!. So anyway, I was talking with some friends and made the statement that that amount of money can't be obtained in less than a year. The practical man in me KNOWS that this is IMPOSSIBLE. But my "spirit man" beat me up so bad when those words escaped my mouth. It was screaming to me that "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Philippians 4:13 It was also screaming that with God there is no time...HE CREATED TIME...lol. If he wanted to he could create a tree in my back yard that grew dollar bills for leaves...lol!!
Miracles happened all the time throughout the Bible and in the ordinary lives of believers; so why do we think that God can't provide in our lives? (Talking to myself). Jesus fed thousands of people from a 2 piece fish dinner (cleverly put by my Pastor), Moses parted the Red Sea, the disciples cast out demons and healed the sick along with the many other miracles and where performed in the Bible and in out everyday lives. All of these seemingly impossible tasks have been done by those who believe and operate in the fullness of their "spirit man". All of them operated in Kingdom principles, which simply means bringing Heaven to Earth! There's no sickness in heaven, no poverty, no evil, no suffering... What we have to realize is that we have to believe what we preach to others. That God WILL provide, but more importantly that God is GOD. He can do ANYTHING!!! Even the things that are unthinkable!
Until Next Time family -- God Bless and take care!!!
There's something about men and women of God coming together to create in His name. I recently spent an entire day with two talented men of God who make music in His name. What an awesome time we had! Being ourselves, and openly and freely talking about God, His word and how to better reach His people!
2010 is going to be the year ladies and gentlemen! The year where God is going to pour out His blessings on those who ask AND BELIEVE. And believe me -- I AM ASKING and I BELIEVE!
It's my goal this year to operate in Kingdom principles! No longer will the laws of man and nature hinder me from believing! The Bible says that "...God is able to do far more abundantly beyond all that we ask or think according to the power that works within us..." Ephesians 3:20-21.
Reading this verse today was an example of God's perfect timing. I am currently slated to direct this independent feature film that has a HUGE budget...think, "Lord of the Rings"!!!. So anyway, I was talking with some friends and made the statement that that amount of money can't be obtained in less than a year. The practical man in me KNOWS that this is IMPOSSIBLE. But my "spirit man" beat me up so bad when those words escaped my mouth. It was screaming to me that "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Philippians 4:13 It was also screaming that with God there is no time...HE CREATED TIME...lol. If he wanted to he could create a tree in my back yard that grew dollar bills for leaves...lol!!
Miracles happened all the time throughout the Bible and in the ordinary lives of believers; so why do we think that God can't provide in our lives? (Talking to myself). Jesus fed thousands of people from a 2 piece fish dinner (cleverly put by my Pastor), Moses parted the Red Sea, the disciples cast out demons and healed the sick along with the many other miracles and where performed in the Bible and in out everyday lives. All of these seemingly impossible tasks have been done by those who believe and operate in the fullness of their "spirit man". All of them operated in Kingdom principles, which simply means bringing Heaven to Earth! There's no sickness in heaven, no poverty, no evil, no suffering... What we have to realize is that we have to believe what we preach to others. That God WILL provide, but more importantly that God is GOD. He can do ANYTHING!!! Even the things that are unthinkable!
Until Next Time family -- God Bless and take care!!!
Wednesday, January 6, 2010
Chapter 23 January 6, 2010
Transparency. How much should the world know about me and my life? Should I keep it surface level and write about what I did during the day, or should I be totally transparent and reveal the inner most being of what makes me, Me.
Random Thought: What do I think about all the time? For those that know me, know that I think about Love. I think about the Love of God and how grateful I am to have a God that loves me so much. It brings me to tears everytime I think about God and how much he has done for me and what he has promised me in the future. A song I recently heard puts it perfectly: "If he doesn't do anything else for me, He's done enough." And by that I mean that He sent his Son Jesus, to die for us all, so that we are given the opportunity to spend eternity in Heaven with Him.
I also think about how I can Love others the way that Jesus loved people during his time on earth. Loving those that love you is easy, but doing the same for the ones who can't stand you, or worse the ones you can't stand, is hard.
And then ultimately I think about romantic Love. Hoping that one day I can find that person to pour my soul into and them into me. The man that can sweep me off my feet and who will stand by my side through all the things the enemy will throw at us. Not a worldly man after worldy things, rather a man of God seeking spiritual things. A man that Loves God above all else, and knows how to treat and cherish a woman of God.
It's easy to loose focus in this giant world he live in. Everything is against us and is pulling the world more and more away from God. But guess what!?!!!! WE ARE SUPERSTARS!!! And we can turn people back towards God. People out there know that the world is ... crap. But there's no one in their lives giving them the real deal about Jesus. It's our time ladies and gentleman! Our time to use what God has given us to save souls and point them to Christ! Whose ready! I AM!!!
I might play around with that idea in a short documentary...hummm. Gotta get this money for this camera first. Once I get this bad boy...Can't NO ONE stop me baby!!!
Random Thought: What do I think about all the time? For those that know me, know that I think about Love. I think about the Love of God and how grateful I am to have a God that loves me so much. It brings me to tears everytime I think about God and how much he has done for me and what he has promised me in the future. A song I recently heard puts it perfectly: "If he doesn't do anything else for me, He's done enough." And by that I mean that He sent his Son Jesus, to die for us all, so that we are given the opportunity to spend eternity in Heaven with Him.
I also think about how I can Love others the way that Jesus loved people during his time on earth. Loving those that love you is easy, but doing the same for the ones who can't stand you, or worse the ones you can't stand, is hard.
And then ultimately I think about romantic Love. Hoping that one day I can find that person to pour my soul into and them into me. The man that can sweep me off my feet and who will stand by my side through all the things the enemy will throw at us. Not a worldly man after worldy things, rather a man of God seeking spiritual things. A man that Loves God above all else, and knows how to treat and cherish a woman of God.
It's easy to loose focus in this giant world he live in. Everything is against us and is pulling the world more and more away from God. But guess what!?!!!! WE ARE SUPERSTARS!!! And we can turn people back towards God. People out there know that the world is ... crap. But there's no one in their lives giving them the real deal about Jesus. It's our time ladies and gentleman! Our time to use what God has given us to save souls and point them to Christ! Whose ready! I AM!!!
I might play around with that idea in a short documentary...hummm. Gotta get this money for this camera first. Once I get this bad boy...Can't NO ONE stop me baby!!!
Saturday, January 2, 2010
Tuesday, December 15, 2009
New Chapter has begun!
Alrighty guys! The new chapter has arrived! That is, a new chapter in my life. I feel it. No longer am I on the starving artist vibe...I've got myself a respectable job working for the FAA, and operate my film production company on the side. I love it. My faith has grown leaps and bounds over the past few months and have FINALLY found a church home at Victory Christian Ministries International in Suitland, MD. I have expanded the ministry of my production company to include the production of music videos for positive and Christian artists and having done that, I already booked 3 music videos for 2010! I know that I am on the path God has for me and am excited to see what comes next -- the good, bad, and the ugly. Because I KNOW that everything that happens will be used for His glory in the end.
It's so amazing how much we still need God even when we think we're ok. Recent happenings in my life have made me realize that I haven't truly dealt with a few issues I have. My problem is that I act before I think, let alone talk to God. I'm so impulsive it's not even funny. And that can get me into a whole heap of trouble. I love to help people. I love to serve and make people happy. But I'm having a hard time balancing my instinct and wisdom...
It's so amazing how much we still need God even when we think we're ok. Recent happenings in my life have made me realize that I haven't truly dealt with a few issues I have. My problem is that I act before I think, let alone talk to God. I'm so impulsive it's not even funny. And that can get me into a whole heap of trouble. I love to help people. I love to serve and make people happy. But I'm having a hard time balancing my instinct and wisdom...
Thursday, December 10, 2009
I have BIG DREAMS guys
Everytime I think about everything that I need to accomplish in a day, a year, in life...I get a bit overwhelmed. But something that Derek Luke (actor in Antione Fisher, Friday Night Lights, Notorious) said to a group of hungry filmmakers and actors during a panel at the 2009 Hollywood Black Film Festival will always stick with me:
Paraphrasing: "Don't be afraid of following your dreams. The reason you have them is because God put them there." How awesome is that!
Paraphrasing: "Don't be afraid of following your dreams. The reason you have them is because God put them there." How awesome is that!
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
Music Video Time
I am soo excited!!! I just booked two music videos!!! So glad to be doing work for the Kingdom.
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Reverie goes International!
Today I just received news that my short film, "Reverie", will be screened in China during a special showcase screening of "the Best of SCAD" films and animations! "Reverie" has screened in Canada which is technically considered "international" but it's too close to home (DC)to say so. But now that it is screening in China...I can really say that my film has been screened internationally! Whoopie! Now all that's left on my list is to be invited to one of these international film festivals and get a free trip somewhere!!! Whoop whoop!
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
For LADIES Eyes ONLY (but men can read too...lol)
I received this in an email today. Thought I'd share. Eye opening for all the lost women out there. I thought I had my King, but after reading this I was missing one key element...He wasn't pursuing me. HAHAHA. A HUGE problem wouldnt you say?! lol Anywho...Enjoy!
Is HE the ONE?
THE RIGHT ONE
First we must allow our Heavenly Father to do the picking. And second, the decision for a mate must be made on a spiritual and intellectual basis before it's made on an emotional one. "What about love? Shouldn't that be the third? you ask. No, and I'll tell you why. "The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it? (Jeremiah 17:9). The heart is willful and is driven by its own agenda. It does not consider things rationally and intelligently it just loves to love! Therefore you have to point it in the right direction: "Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life" (Proverbs 4:23).
Whenever you meet a man, you need to get clearance from God, check out his attributes, and then allow your heart to engage. Dating exists not for mating; it exists for collecting data. I believe that the biblical design would be friendship, courtship and then marriage. Friendship is two people walking together in agreement and accountability, learning and growing together.
Courtship follows the mutual agreement to commit to one another exclusively - it is the decisive turning toward the agreed-upon goal of the marriage altar. It is a period of laying a foundation and preparing your life together after marriage. But dating? Well, if you do date, use the time wisely to gather these facts.
1. Check out the fabric. Is the person mate material? Does this man have an intimate relationship with the Father through Jesus Christ? Does he care what God thinks about his behavior? Is he accountable to God as well as another co-laborer in the faith? Accountability is an important factor. It is imperative to maintaining a committed relationship. Is your potential spouse a member of the same family - the family of God?
You need to have common interests and values and agree on the essentials of living day to day. You have a similar spiritual walk. You eat the same spiritual diet. You enjoy a lot of similar things. You have like interests, like goals in life, like opinions on basic life issues. You have had like experiences in your background. Though there is some truth to the idiom that opposites attract, like-minded folks fare better together.
Furthermore, does he want to get married? If you want to be married and your dreamboat isn't interested, don't waste your time. Remember, women fall in love and get married. Men decide to get married and then look for a wife. Note the difference in order. So if a guy says he's not looking for anything serious, take his words seriously. If he's not going in your direction, get off the bus and wait for the right one.
2. Does this man want you? Is he pursuing you? The man who is right for you will pursue you, and God's hand in the relationship will be clear. No guessing, no fleeces, no dead ends. Scripture says: "He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord" (Proverbs 18:22).
Note - who finds whom? THE MAN FINDS THE WIFE. From the beginning of time, God has transported men and women across the world in order to put them together. At the RIGHT TIME, He will bring that man on the scene and he will find you. In God's perfect design, the man is the one who recognizes his mate. Adam has no problem recognizing that Eve was his missing
rib. You do not need to strategically place yourself anywhere. You don't have to help a guy out because he's shy! Men will do whatever they have to do to get what they truly want. The man in your life should recognize you as the pearl of great price in his life and be willing to do whatever he must in order to gain your hand. If he is passive about gaining your affections, take it as a sign that he is not interested.
Many a woman's mother has suggested that it is a good idea to marry a man who loves you more than you love him. As cold as that sounds, it actually might be scriptural if you stop to think about it: "We love him because he first loved us" (1 John 4:19). Until then, take the ultimate chill pill. You don't need a bunch of men in your life to make you feel all right about yourself. You need only one man - your man, the one God has selected to select you. And trust me, the right man at the wrong time can be just as awful as the wrong man at any time. So trust God's timing in this. He is the ultimate matchmaker. Relax, sit pretty and allow yourself to be found. Again - WAIT until the man voices his intentions. He should take the lead in establishing the relationship. You may have an inkling that he is the one, but God will use the man to set the tone of the relationship. Allow him the opportunity to woo you - this is your first act of submission. Jesus set the standard for all men to follow. They should love us first. And they should lead the
relationship.
3. The man in your life should not desire to move into your house, only into your heart. A man who prepares for your future has made his intentions clear. A man who is husband material has the means to take care of a wife. He is a responsible human being who understands he needs to have something to offer. In short, a man should have the means to be a suitable lover for you.
4. Check out his buddies. Everyone knows birds of the same feather flock together, yet most women fail to see the connection between a man and his friends. A man's pals tell you a lot about the person that you haven't seen yet. They reveal things about the guy's character that might be hidden when he is on good behavior. Everyone knows how to put his best foot forward. Don't stay focused on the foot, check out the rest of the body!
5. Check out his relationship with his mother. How does he treat her? This is your preview of how he will treat you. There are lots of men who, because of a negative relationship with their mothers, really don't like women, yet say they do. Unresolved issues between mother
and son continue between husband and wife.
6. Remember that a man's family reveals the cloth from which he's cut. Take note and decide whether you want your future with the man in your life to look like his present family situation.
7. Check out the patterns of his life. Do you see repeated cycles of drama in his personal kingdom? Broken relationships? Problems in making commitments - including the job market? Mood swings? Is a problem always someone else's fault? Does he embrace responsibility or
shirk it? Does he keep his promises? Is he a man of good reputation? Remember all garments look wonderful hanging in the store, but with wear, some begin to unravel. Give yourself time and space to check out the man in your life. Time will always reveal whether or not he is
made of the right stuff.
8. Does this man have a vision for his life? Is he running with that vision? Remember, God decided Adam needed help once Adam got busy DOING his assignment. As we saw Adam, a man doesn't need help until he is busy doing what he was created and called to do. Is the man in your life guided by sense of destiny and purpose, or does he just allow life to happen around him? A man who is not certain of his mission can be a most miserable person - and you'll be miserable too if you know where YOU want to go in life. A man who has vision is not intimidated by a woman whose mission statement is clear. He will be your best ally, cheerleader and assistant because he wants you both to make it! A man who cannot be supportive of your achievements because he is floundering in a sea of uncertainty over his own life is not a healthy partner to have and to hold forever.
Creating dependencies or feelings of obligation is not the way to get the best out of your man. Somewhere along the way, he will resent you and flee from the smothering burden of obligation he associates you with. You want a man who is firmly anchored in his identity in Christ. Remember, we are looking for a man who will be priest and leader of his home. His first instinct should be to want to cover you, redeem you, and provide for you. Your job is to decide if this is the man God has ordained for you to complement.
9. Complimentary. Do your talents and gifts complement his? Do his gifts, compliment yours? What about your temperaments? Do you see the two of you as an effective team capable of bringing blessing to the lives of those around you? Do your futures mesh? Can you co-ordinate
your gifts in an attractive and effective way? This is why knowing your purpose is so important. Make sure your hearts beat for mutual causes. When I go shopping I always consider the fabric, the fit and what I already have in my closet. Will my next purchase be a complimentary addition to what I already have? If I find that I am going to have to buy shoes and matching accessories to go with a new outfit, I leave it right on the rack. It is too expensive a proposition.. If the man you meet makes you feel that you need to completely reinvent yourself, something is wrong.
This is where I ask you to consider the relationship in terms of cost. Is this relationship expensive spiritually, emotional or physically? Does your longing for a mate make you willing to forfeit who you are in the process? Or does he see you as the gift that you are? The man in your life should consider you a rare find, a priceless jewel - because of you he is getting ready to get blessed big-time! Any relationship that causes you to feel unworthy, unlovely, unacceptable, undesirable or that you have to work for love, is too expensive! God has called the man to cover, protect and provide not only materially for a woman, but emotionally and spiritually as well. You should be richer in mind, body and spirit for your union with the man of your dreams. The man in your life should make rich deposits into your heart and spirit, not withdrawals.
10. Does he have a healthy love and acceptance of himself? Make sure the man in your life has taken time to heal from past relationships and has made peace with himself. How he cares for himself is how he will care for you. A man's relationship with God is crucial here.. His love for himself will only be as strong as his love for God. This is not something that you can impart. You cannot be his savior or teacher. That is out of spiritual order. In his rightful place as your personal priest, he should be leading you to a richer relationship with Christ. If he is causing you to compromise your faith and destabilize your walk, if he is leading you into sexual sin or causing you to be distracted from your commitment to God, the relationship is too expensive. Offending the Lover of your soul, who promises you eternal love, is too high a fare to pay for a ride that has a limited run. If you and your man can't soar in the Spirit, when the force of your love for one another is tested by the pull or gravity of the world, your union will not be able to survive.
So you decide. How much is your life worth? How much is your love worth? You will be able to accept only what you believe you deserve. God himself calculated the worth of your love and decided it was worth His life. He now pledges you His love for eternity. Yes, Jesus sets the example for all others to follow when He paid a ransom for His bride. Should you expect less from a mortal man? Throughout the Biblical age, men were willing to pay the cost for what they truly desired. The truth of the matter is, everyone knows that anything worth having, costs and no one gets a ride in this life for free.
Our prayer:
Dear Heavenly Mother/Father, God:
I confess that I have not always been as careful as I should've been with my heart. From time to time, my desire for love has caused me to leave my heart in the wrong hands. I now commit my heart into Your hands for safekeeping. Please help me to stop being so impulsive with what you deem so precious. As I learn to celebrate Your love for me, let me learn from Your example what a bridegroom should really be like. Help me to never settle for less than what you desire for me. As I embrace You as the Lover of my soul, keep my affections in the haven of Your own heart. As I rest in Your love, make me more discriminating of those who approach me. I ask that You take over this area of my life.. Keep me from those You know would hurt my heart. I invite You to set a hedge around me and keep me from all who would draw me into unfruitful relationships until the day you present me to the mate that You have selected for me.. Grant me the discernment to recognize him as he recognizes me. Cleanse me from the temptation to typecast the men I meet according to what I see. Help me to trust in Your knowledge and lean not on my own understanding. I know that You know what is best for me; therefore I yield to Your choice. In Jesus Name. Amen.
Is HE the ONE?
THE RIGHT ONE
First we must allow our Heavenly Father to do the picking. And second, the decision for a mate must be made on a spiritual and intellectual basis before it's made on an emotional one. "What about love? Shouldn't that be the third? you ask. No, and I'll tell you why. "The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it? (Jeremiah 17:9). The heart is willful and is driven by its own agenda. It does not consider things rationally and intelligently it just loves to love! Therefore you have to point it in the right direction: "Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life" (Proverbs 4:23).
Whenever you meet a man, you need to get clearance from God, check out his attributes, and then allow your heart to engage. Dating exists not for mating; it exists for collecting data. I believe that the biblical design would be friendship, courtship and then marriage. Friendship is two people walking together in agreement and accountability, learning and growing together.
Courtship follows the mutual agreement to commit to one another exclusively - it is the decisive turning toward the agreed-upon goal of the marriage altar. It is a period of laying a foundation and preparing your life together after marriage. But dating? Well, if you do date, use the time wisely to gather these facts.
1. Check out the fabric. Is the person mate material? Does this man have an intimate relationship with the Father through Jesus Christ? Does he care what God thinks about his behavior? Is he accountable to God as well as another co-laborer in the faith? Accountability is an important factor. It is imperative to maintaining a committed relationship. Is your potential spouse a member of the same family - the family of God?
You need to have common interests and values and agree on the essentials of living day to day. You have a similar spiritual walk. You eat the same spiritual diet. You enjoy a lot of similar things. You have like interests, like goals in life, like opinions on basic life issues. You have had like experiences in your background. Though there is some truth to the idiom that opposites attract, like-minded folks fare better together.
Furthermore, does he want to get married? If you want to be married and your dreamboat isn't interested, don't waste your time. Remember, women fall in love and get married. Men decide to get married and then look for a wife. Note the difference in order. So if a guy says he's not looking for anything serious, take his words seriously. If he's not going in your direction, get off the bus and wait for the right one.
2. Does this man want you? Is he pursuing you? The man who is right for you will pursue you, and God's hand in the relationship will be clear. No guessing, no fleeces, no dead ends. Scripture says: "He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord" (Proverbs 18:22).
Note - who finds whom? THE MAN FINDS THE WIFE. From the beginning of time, God has transported men and women across the world in order to put them together. At the RIGHT TIME, He will bring that man on the scene and he will find you. In God's perfect design, the man is the one who recognizes his mate. Adam has no problem recognizing that Eve was his missing
rib. You do not need to strategically place yourself anywhere. You don't have to help a guy out because he's shy! Men will do whatever they have to do to get what they truly want. The man in your life should recognize you as the pearl of great price in his life and be willing to do whatever he must in order to gain your hand. If he is passive about gaining your affections, take it as a sign that he is not interested.
Many a woman's mother has suggested that it is a good idea to marry a man who loves you more than you love him. As cold as that sounds, it actually might be scriptural if you stop to think about it: "We love him because he first loved us" (1 John 4:19). Until then, take the ultimate chill pill. You don't need a bunch of men in your life to make you feel all right about yourself. You need only one man - your man, the one God has selected to select you. And trust me, the right man at the wrong time can be just as awful as the wrong man at any time. So trust God's timing in this. He is the ultimate matchmaker. Relax, sit pretty and allow yourself to be found. Again - WAIT until the man voices his intentions. He should take the lead in establishing the relationship. You may have an inkling that he is the one, but God will use the man to set the tone of the relationship. Allow him the opportunity to woo you - this is your first act of submission. Jesus set the standard for all men to follow. They should love us first. And they should lead the
relationship.
3. The man in your life should not desire to move into your house, only into your heart. A man who prepares for your future has made his intentions clear. A man who is husband material has the means to take care of a wife. He is a responsible human being who understands he needs to have something to offer. In short, a man should have the means to be a suitable lover for you.
4. Check out his buddies. Everyone knows birds of the same feather flock together, yet most women fail to see the connection between a man and his friends. A man's pals tell you a lot about the person that you haven't seen yet. They reveal things about the guy's character that might be hidden when he is on good behavior. Everyone knows how to put his best foot forward. Don't stay focused on the foot, check out the rest of the body!
5. Check out his relationship with his mother. How does he treat her? This is your preview of how he will treat you. There are lots of men who, because of a negative relationship with their mothers, really don't like women, yet say they do. Unresolved issues between mother
and son continue between husband and wife.
6. Remember that a man's family reveals the cloth from which he's cut. Take note and decide whether you want your future with the man in your life to look like his present family situation.
7. Check out the patterns of his life. Do you see repeated cycles of drama in his personal kingdom? Broken relationships? Problems in making commitments - including the job market? Mood swings? Is a problem always someone else's fault? Does he embrace responsibility or
shirk it? Does he keep his promises? Is he a man of good reputation? Remember all garments look wonderful hanging in the store, but with wear, some begin to unravel. Give yourself time and space to check out the man in your life. Time will always reveal whether or not he is
made of the right stuff.
8. Does this man have a vision for his life? Is he running with that vision? Remember, God decided Adam needed help once Adam got busy DOING his assignment. As we saw Adam, a man doesn't need help until he is busy doing what he was created and called to do. Is the man in your life guided by sense of destiny and purpose, or does he just allow life to happen around him? A man who is not certain of his mission can be a most miserable person - and you'll be miserable too if you know where YOU want to go in life. A man who has vision is not intimidated by a woman whose mission statement is clear. He will be your best ally, cheerleader and assistant because he wants you both to make it! A man who cannot be supportive of your achievements because he is floundering in a sea of uncertainty over his own life is not a healthy partner to have and to hold forever.
Creating dependencies or feelings of obligation is not the way to get the best out of your man. Somewhere along the way, he will resent you and flee from the smothering burden of obligation he associates you with. You want a man who is firmly anchored in his identity in Christ. Remember, we are looking for a man who will be priest and leader of his home. His first instinct should be to want to cover you, redeem you, and provide for you. Your job is to decide if this is the man God has ordained for you to complement.
9. Complimentary. Do your talents and gifts complement his? Do his gifts, compliment yours? What about your temperaments? Do you see the two of you as an effective team capable of bringing blessing to the lives of those around you? Do your futures mesh? Can you co-ordinate
your gifts in an attractive and effective way? This is why knowing your purpose is so important. Make sure your hearts beat for mutual causes. When I go shopping I always consider the fabric, the fit and what I already have in my closet. Will my next purchase be a complimentary addition to what I already have? If I find that I am going to have to buy shoes and matching accessories to go with a new outfit, I leave it right on the rack. It is too expensive a proposition.. If the man you meet makes you feel that you need to completely reinvent yourself, something is wrong.
This is where I ask you to consider the relationship in terms of cost. Is this relationship expensive spiritually, emotional or physically? Does your longing for a mate make you willing to forfeit who you are in the process? Or does he see you as the gift that you are? The man in your life should consider you a rare find, a priceless jewel - because of you he is getting ready to get blessed big-time! Any relationship that causes you to feel unworthy, unlovely, unacceptable, undesirable or that you have to work for love, is too expensive! God has called the man to cover, protect and provide not only materially for a woman, but emotionally and spiritually as well. You should be richer in mind, body and spirit for your union with the man of your dreams. The man in your life should make rich deposits into your heart and spirit, not withdrawals.
10. Does he have a healthy love and acceptance of himself? Make sure the man in your life has taken time to heal from past relationships and has made peace with himself. How he cares for himself is how he will care for you. A man's relationship with God is crucial here.. His love for himself will only be as strong as his love for God. This is not something that you can impart. You cannot be his savior or teacher. That is out of spiritual order. In his rightful place as your personal priest, he should be leading you to a richer relationship with Christ. If he is causing you to compromise your faith and destabilize your walk, if he is leading you into sexual sin or causing you to be distracted from your commitment to God, the relationship is too expensive. Offending the Lover of your soul, who promises you eternal love, is too high a fare to pay for a ride that has a limited run. If you and your man can't soar in the Spirit, when the force of your love for one another is tested by the pull or gravity of the world, your union will not be able to survive.
So you decide. How much is your life worth? How much is your love worth? You will be able to accept only what you believe you deserve. God himself calculated the worth of your love and decided it was worth His life. He now pledges you His love for eternity. Yes, Jesus sets the example for all others to follow when He paid a ransom for His bride. Should you expect less from a mortal man? Throughout the Biblical age, men were willing to pay the cost for what they truly desired. The truth of the matter is, everyone knows that anything worth having, costs and no one gets a ride in this life for free.
Our prayer:
Dear Heavenly Mother/Father, God:
I confess that I have not always been as careful as I should've been with my heart. From time to time, my desire for love has caused me to leave my heart in the wrong hands. I now commit my heart into Your hands for safekeeping. Please help me to stop being so impulsive with what you deem so precious. As I learn to celebrate Your love for me, let me learn from Your example what a bridegroom should really be like. Help me to never settle for less than what you desire for me. As I embrace You as the Lover of my soul, keep my affections in the haven of Your own heart. As I rest in Your love, make me more discriminating of those who approach me. I ask that You take over this area of my life.. Keep me from those You know would hurt my heart. I invite You to set a hedge around me and keep me from all who would draw me into unfruitful relationships until the day you present me to the mate that You have selected for me.. Grant me the discernment to recognize him as he recognizes me. Cleanse me from the temptation to typecast the men I meet according to what I see. Help me to trust in Your knowledge and lean not on my own understanding. I know that You know what is best for me; therefore I yield to Your choice. In Jesus Name. Amen.
Thursday, October 15, 2009
Stealing Stories
Question:
I'm sure you've opened your inbox to find a silly story or two forwarded to you by a friend, whose friend sent it to him, and so on and so forth. But where do these stories originate? I've had a few that have come across my mind that would make BRILLIANT 1-2 minute short comedies, but I don't want them to get to festival status and have it bite me in the butt.
Is it really that serious. They aren't really festival worthy pieces, rather just something cheap and fun to do to add to my reel of work.
What are your opinions? Should I worry too much about this, or just go out and shoot! Or if you have any suggestions on how I can find out the author of such things that have been passed on by hundreds of millions of people...
Thanks guys!
I'm sure you've opened your inbox to find a silly story or two forwarded to you by a friend, whose friend sent it to him, and so on and so forth. But where do these stories originate? I've had a few that have come across my mind that would make BRILLIANT 1-2 minute short comedies, but I don't want them to get to festival status and have it bite me in the butt.
Is it really that serious. They aren't really festival worthy pieces, rather just something cheap and fun to do to add to my reel of work.
What are your opinions? Should I worry too much about this, or just go out and shoot! Or if you have any suggestions on how I can find out the author of such things that have been passed on by hundreds of millions of people...
Thanks guys!
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Ask And You Shall Recieve
Man-o-man is this true! A few months ago, I hit a dry spell. I couldn't write ANYTHING. So frustrating. So I prayed for God to inspire me and you know what ya'll?! HE DID! Thank you Jesus! So much so, that my BRAIN HURTS! hahaha. Seriously, I have so much to write and so much that I want to say, I can hardly get it out, because it hurts to focus on one idea...SUPERFANTASTICALLY WEIRD!
I mean these ideas won't go away! LOL. Not that I want them too. It's just that, I'm scatter-brained enough...I don't need to add the chaos of mixing 10 completely different stories together causing this...hmmmm. Wait. That's not a bad idea actually. I once had a professor tell me that many of our ideas are elements that can be combined to contribute to one successful story. Maybe that's why I can't write a complete story from these ideas. Maybe they are just the elements. I'm gonna have to create a Captain Planet! "With your powers combined - I. AM. CAPTAIN PLANET!" lol.
But anywho, what I'd like to pass along from this wonderful blessing is that NOTHING or no place in your life is uninspiring. Even if you're working at McDonald's dropping fries, or a waitress at a Cafe, or behind the desk as a Receptionist when you want to be creating GREAT MASTERFUL FILMS WITH AWESOMELY INSPIRING SUBJECT MATTER...lol --remember you can get the most whacked out ideas from the most boring and mundane things in life.
Remember God has a plan for us, and you have to believe that. I heard Derek Luke at a Q & A say, "If you have a dream, know that God put it there." "If you have a skill, know that God gave it to you". God has already equipped us with everything we need, all we need to do is to believe. HA! Ask and you shall receive and don't under estimate the power of speaking things into existence either. We are all made in God's image, and we all have the ability to speak words of Power. But it wont happen unless you BELIEVE.
Matthew 21:21
Then Jesus told them, "I assure you, if you have faith and don't doubt, you can do things like this and much more. You can even say to this mountain, `May God lift you up and throw you into the sea,' and it will happen. If you believe, you will receive whatever you ask for in prayer."
Whenever you're feeling a bit discouraged, just put on your "blinders" (don't look at what everyone else around you is doing) and know that God has got your back! He's just waiting for you to Believe.
Does that make sense? Comments welcome ;)
I mean these ideas won't go away! LOL. Not that I want them too. It's just that, I'm scatter-brained enough...I don't need to add the chaos of mixing 10 completely different stories together causing this...hmmmm. Wait. That's not a bad idea actually. I once had a professor tell me that many of our ideas are elements that can be combined to contribute to one successful story. Maybe that's why I can't write a complete story from these ideas. Maybe they are just the elements. I'm gonna have to create a Captain Planet! "With your powers combined - I. AM. CAPTAIN PLANET!" lol.
But anywho, what I'd like to pass along from this wonderful blessing is that NOTHING or no place in your life is uninspiring. Even if you're working at McDonald's dropping fries, or a waitress at a Cafe, or behind the desk as a Receptionist when you want to be creating GREAT MASTERFUL FILMS WITH AWESOMELY INSPIRING SUBJECT MATTER...lol --remember you can get the most whacked out ideas from the most boring and mundane things in life.
Remember God has a plan for us, and you have to believe that. I heard Derek Luke at a Q & A say, "If you have a dream, know that God put it there." "If you have a skill, know that God gave it to you". God has already equipped us with everything we need, all we need to do is to believe. HA! Ask and you shall receive and don't under estimate the power of speaking things into existence either. We are all made in God's image, and we all have the ability to speak words of Power. But it wont happen unless you BELIEVE.
Matthew 21:21
Then Jesus told them, "I assure you, if you have faith and don't doubt, you can do things like this and much more. You can even say to this mountain, `May God lift you up and throw you into the sea,' and it will happen. If you believe, you will receive whatever you ask for in prayer."
Whenever you're feeling a bit discouraged, just put on your "blinders" (don't look at what everyone else around you is doing) and know that God has got your back! He's just waiting for you to Believe.
Does that make sense? Comments welcome ;)
Farmville
Hey, hey, hey!
A little off topic from the other posts, but I HAVE to talk about this...Facebook has this game application called FARMVILLE. Farmville is an online game that allows you to plant and harvest fruits, vegatables to make more money and earn farming experience to gain more access to different seeds and things for your farm. You are also able to purchase more land, animals, trees, and farm decorations. I started playing this game last night, and I am...hooked.
I am going crazy that I can't play it here at work! If I wait too long to haverst my crops, they will surely die! :( lol.. What organization doesn't allow their employees to play games during work?! HAHAHA. I hope you know that I am just kidding.
Anywho! I hope you all have a superfantabulous day!
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Ms. P.
A little off topic from the other posts, but I HAVE to talk about this...Facebook has this game application called FARMVILLE. Farmville is an online game that allows you to plant and harvest fruits, vegatables to make more money and earn farming experience to gain more access to different seeds and things for your farm. You are also able to purchase more land, animals, trees, and farm decorations. I started playing this game last night, and I am...hooked.
I am going crazy that I can't play it here at work! If I wait too long to haverst my crops, they will surely die! :( lol.. What organization doesn't allow their employees to play games during work?! HAHAHA. I hope you know that I am just kidding.
Anywho! I hope you all have a superfantabulous day!
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Ms. P.
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